Answered Prayers

Yesterday, at my OHSU Neurology appointment there was a HUGE answer to prayer. The neurologist took ALS off the table! He said that theoretically I could develop ALS down the road, but that he would be shocked if that happened. Benign Fasciculation Syndrome (what they diagnosed me with there a few months ago) and ALS do overlap. but they are completely different conditions. I have gained strength and if I was developing ALS I would be weaker. We think the ALS scare happened because they were not looking at me before through the lens of someone who was only two months out from brain surgery. Also, this time many of my responses to the neuro tests were improved.  Last time I saw them, I was still so weak from surgery and barely past only walking to the mailbox and back.

I’m so grateful and feel relief over that.

There are still some symptoms that do not have any answers yet, but he will know more are he reviews my upcoming brain and cervical spine MRIs.  We will and go from there, the same response as my neurosurgery team.  They need more information first. I don’t have reflexes in my legs. I asked the neurologist why that was, he laughed and said that was a good question.

We came up with a new rescue plan for migraines and headaches and adjusted my medication. It’s been a challenge because I struggle with multiple types of headaches. Medication will not help with Chiari headaches, but sometimes it’s hard to know what kind of headache I am having. I don’t always recognize the migraine symptoms as migraine symptoms.

Thank you everyone for praying for me. God answered our prayers yesterday. It took a bit to sink in. It was a really stressful morning. Just preparing for that appointment I was not sure what to expect. There have been so many different disappointing neurology appointments over the last several years, but I think it went well.

While I still wish I had more of an answer about some symptoms I think there is a good plan in place. We told him everything my therapists have been saying and he placed an order for a neuro-rehab at OHSU to help with the cognitive issues. We also told him how everyone in my medical team is deferring to the neurosurgeon, but that the neurosurgeon did the surgery and does not do the aftercare. He said that he would take over and manage all the ongoing neurological issues. Which was a huge relief and another answer to pray.

I also have a lot more strength than I realized. He said while I’m having some weird neurological symptoms, he’s not too concerned and that the therapists can calm down a bit and continue on with treatment.  He said to assure them all that I am still healing from brain surgery and to continue with my treatment plans.

One of the therapists told me, the last time I saw her, that I was the first person she has worked with that has had this kind of surgery and C1 messed with to any extent. Most of my C1 is gone, so my neck must feel very strange to her, with such a large soft area. I’m not going to lie, that was a little unnerving. I think it’s just complicated because Chiari Malformation is not really heard of or understood that much, even in the medical community.

Thank you again for all your prayers and for walking with me through this. I am so grateful for all of you and your prayers, love and support. I am so thankful for all of you!

With love,

Shae Sobottke

“Wrong will be right when Aslan comes in sight, at the sound of his roar, sorrows will be no more. When he bares his teeth, winter meets its death and when he shakes his mane, we shall have spring again”

C.S. Lewis – The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe


It has been six months since I had brain surgery. Sometimes it feels like it has been so much longer, other times it feels like it happened yesterday. I’m grateful for the surgery, for all the symptoms it has relived. Mainly the horrible head pain in the back of my head. The symptoms are still there, they come and go, but it’s bearable now. There are some days though, when the symptoms are bad, but I’m still in the year of healing.

There are still many sleepless nights. Last week, I had one of my worst nights since surgery. I could not get comfortable because of neck pain and just felt restless. Before surgery, I had an in-lab sleep study done. The sleep clinic determined that it took longer for me to reach the different stages of sleep and that my brain would wake itself up for no reason. I am going to do another in-lab sleep study in the coming weeks. The sleep clinic wants to make sure that I don’t have central sleep apnea, which is a risk with anyone who has had a brain infection, or their skull broken.

I’m still working with my physical therapist for my neck. I am mostly just doing a few stretches to help loosen my neck and a few sets of exercises to help strengthen my neck. Usually when I go there though, the therapist massages my neck to break up the scar tissue. Sometimes, the massages feel nice and help me relax and other times it is a little uncomfortable and I’m really sore for quite awhile. After I have physical therapy, I am supposed to just rest with no brain stimulation. That means laying down and not watching tv or reading a book, I can listen to music though, for an hour after my session. Last week, I had an x-ray done of my skull, so the therapist could see exactly what was done with C1. You can see the titanium plate that was put over my dura after they sealed it with some of my scalp tissue. That x-ray was taken with my mouth open, looking through my throat.

 I have also started swim therapy in the pool. I mostly just walk laps around the pool and then do a few exercises, like squats or leaning against the wall and pushing a small weight around underwater. The physical therapist, who is helping me with the swim therapy, has identified some spatial awareness issues and some balance problems. For example, I don’t always know where my arms and legs are in the pool. She had me stand on one leg, which I thought I did fine for someone who had brain surgery. Then she had me stand on one leg again, only this time counting backwards from twenty. I could feel myself swaying a little bit more and I had a harder time saying the numbers. I knew what the number was, it was just harder to grasp. The therapist explained that there was a very noticeable difference and that what was happening was my brain was getting overwhelmed and switched its focus from balancing to counting. It let go of its awareness of itself to concentrate on the numbers. She used the analogy of walking and chewing gum. I can walk and I can chew gum, but I can’t walk and chew gum and the same time. My brain gets overstimulated. The therapist both think that because I was deconditioned before surgery, I am having a harder time now. I feel so weak sometimes.

I did not know that pool noodles could be used for anything other than hitting your siblings!

I spend a lot of time walking laps around the pool. Forward walking, side stepping, and backwards. Afterwards, I am ready to nap for days!

The pool therapist recommended that I meet with a neuro therapist to help me with the balance issues, spatial awareness, overstimulation, postural awareness (my brain does not know how to hold my body), and other neurological symptoms. The only neuro-therapist is at OHSU, so we are going to discuss it at my next appointment with them tomorrow.

OSHU Neurology: Tomorrow’s appointment is my three month follow up, although it took four months to get the appointment, with the neurologist.  I am not really looking forward to that appointment. I’m actually dreading it. The last OHSU appointment was a hard blow. After coming home from my very positive, two-month surgery follow up, with the Neurosurgery team in Colorado, OHSU had a whole different take on my health.  They are concerned I may develop ALS. They diagnosed me with Benign Fasciculations Syndrome. The neurologist said that it could just stay Benign Fasciculation Syndrome or rapidly progress to ALS. It’s hard to be working so hard with physical therapy and then just have that burden thrusted on top of everything. Sometimes it feels like a weight pulling me down, a mental block.  

There are moments where it all feels so overwhelming. I cannot really imagine what my future looks like beyond where I am at right now. There are still so many sleepless nights, deep fatigue, neck pain, and so many unanswered symptoms.

 I am having new symptoms which I didn’t have before surgery. My primary care doctor, physical therapist, and neurologist all recommended that I call the neurosurgeon and get some feedback on where I should be and what I should be expecting at this stage of healing. We spoke with them today, they said they don’t think my symptoms are neurosurgical, they think they are more neurological. So, not caused by Chiari Malformation, but something more neurological. We decided the next step would be to have a brain MRI-with and without contrast, along with a cervical spine MRI-with and without contrast. Once we get the MRIs back, we will regroup and go from there.

Please pray for this appointment with the neurologist at OHSU tomorrow. That God would give the neurologist wisdom and insight. That there would be answers. Pray also for me as I continue to go forward with the recovery. I am tired of all these appointments and unanswered questions that continue to hang over me. It is still so hard and discouraging at times, my heart feels heavy, and I feel weary.

There are days where I’ve had enough. Enough with the pain. 

Enough with the symptoms.

Enough with the fatigue and sleepless nights.

Enough with doctors’ appointments and physical therapy. 

Enough with always feeling sick and worn out.

Sometimes, I think about the life I had and the life I want compared to where I am, and I feel so much despair. I am so far from where I want to be, from where I thought I would be. My mind will drift sometimes to a bunch of “if only” and “what ifs” and I ask the question, why? Why did was this diagnosis not caught sooner? Why did it have to happen when it did? Why is it still happening?

Well, I don’t know. What I do know is that I don’t need to have it all figured out and everything right for God to love me. I don’t need to have my life all “perfect” for God to use me where I am. There is not a checklist of accomplishments and requirements of where I need to be in life. I long for better days to come, but I am enough for God where I am right now. Taking one day at a time, trusting God and walking with Him through this valley and resting by still waters.

“The Lord is my Shepherd; I shall not want. He makes me to lie down in green pastures; He leads me besides the still waters. He restores my soul.”

– Psalm 23:1-3

My Chiari Bear doesn’t have a name yet. Any suggestions???

Than you all, again, for your continued prayers and support.

Under Aslan’s Paw,

Shae Sobottke

Colorado & OHSU

Last month, I had my two month follow up in Colorado, with the neurosurgeon. I had another MRI and then met with the neurosurgeon to review where I was at in my recovery. The neurosurgeon said the MRI looked really good and that my healing was ahead of where he thought I would be in my recovery. He said that it will still be a full year until I am fully recovered, but that I am headed in the right direction. 

The surgery did exactly what we wanted, it was a success!! I am so thankful for all the people praying and supporting me throughout this journey and everyone that helped make it happen! God has clearly had His hand on me and was working in the details. 

Pic: Left-Before surgery, you can see that the bottom of my brain is crowded and there is no fluid moving around. Right- at the eight week checkup. After removing a pice of my skull and C-1, and making more room in my dura (the lining around our brains) by patching it with a piece of muscle from my scalp, then finishing with a titanium plate, there is now room for fluid to move around my brain. The white is CSF ( cerebral spinal fluid).

A week after I returned from the appointment, I had a neurology appointment at OHSU. 

Originally that appointment was to rule out MS, but since I made that appointment, six months ago, I was directed to CO and had the surgery. We decided to keep that appointment because the neurosurgeon said that he thought I was having migraines with the Chiari headaches. The neurosurgeon also believes that some of my symptoms are not caused by Chiari. So, I went to OHSU to become an established patient and to discuss migraines. 

My mom and I spent two hours going over all my neurological symptoms that don’t fit with Chiari. The neurologist asked a ton of questions and did some test and then brought another doctor into the room, who redid the same tests and some more followed by more questions. The tests showed that I don’t have any reflexes, which we already knew and is one of the symptoms not caused by Chiari. I have no tickle reflexes in my feet and weakness in my arms, legs, grip, feet, and significantly more on the right side of my body.  I showed videos on my phone that I took of muscle spasms that I have been having for a year now. They went through all my videos and asked questions. 

After having a discussion in the hall they came in and said they agree that some of the symptoms I am having are completely outside of Chiari. For example, the loss of reflexes, if it was caused by Chiari they would be hyper reflexes, not absent. 

OHSU diagnosed me with “Benign Fasciculation Syndrome”. Which is persistent muscle twitching, tingling, or numbness in muscles. They made it very clear to me that it could just stay that and be that forever. They also laid out for me that it could progress into ALS.  They said they want to see me every three months to monitor the diagnosis. They said I need to monitor my symptoms and if anything changes or I have any new symptoms I need to let them  know immediately, because it could rapidly change. 

It was shocking and scary. I met with my primary care doctor after that appointment to review everything with him. My primary care said if they were really that concerned then they probably would’ve done a nerve conductivity test in that appointment instead of waiting three months for my next appointment. 

Another thing is: while there are still symptoms that are not caused by Chiari, I’m also still recovering from brain surgery, so that could be causing the weakness. My neurosurgery team also said they have never had a patient with Chiari and ALS. 

In the meantime, the plan is for me to continue physical therapy and add in occupational therapy and swim therapy. My doctor said if there is a neuromuscular disorder the best thing to do is build up muscle. 

I’m still struggling a lot with fatigue and Neuro fatigue. After I do physical therapy, I lay in a dark room with no visual stimulation for an hour. At first I was really annoyed that I have to do this, but now I’m grateful for the rest. The physical therapy feels like a full time job, it is hard and exhausting. I feel frustrated at how weak I feel afterwards. 

It was hard to receive such great news from the neurosurgeon and then have it stomped out by this recent diagnosis. I keep needing to remind myself of how far God’s already brought me. Honestly, I just felt so defeated after that appointment and I’m still struggling with that feeling. 

Please continue to pray for me and my family as I continue to navigate these rough waters and pray for some wisdom for the doctors. God had already brought me so far and I know He will continue to guide me through whatever comes. 

May the Lord bless you,

Shae Sobottke

2 Month Update

It is hard to believe it has already been almost two months since I had brain decompression surgery.

A few weeks ago I started physical therapy for my neck, it’s still super stiff and sore. I still cannot move my head up or down. I will not be cleared for that motion until I meet with the neurosurgeon in CO next week. My mom and I are leaving on Monday for my eight week follow up.

I have come a long way. Still a long way to go until I am a hundred percent, but I’m grateful for the progress I have already made. My hair has grown back in so much that you cannot really even see the bottom incision. There is a small part of the incision on the very top of my neck you can see, if you look closely. There is a larger bald spot where the top incision is, the part where they “harvested” the muscle tissue. 

At the hospital they told me not to feel discouraged with physical therapy, because I would not be doing much. The exercises I am doing is just moving my head to the side and then to look straight ahead again, and then repeat with the other side going back and forth for a few times. Then I tilt my head slowly to the side and then hold it straight again. I am working on doing them a few times a day.  I am also working on walking short walks around the neighborhood. 

I had a conversation with the Chiari Institute last week because of the high level of pain I was having. I am still having some incision pain and a super stiff neck that is sore. The Chiari Institute thought the physical therapy was moving too fast and that I was doing too much, so we slowed that down. Even though I was just going for car rides and puttering around the house, they said that was using up a lot of my energy. They told me to keep in mind that I am recovering from major surgery and that the healing is slow. Another thing we talked about is now because of the symptoms I was having before surgery; I was not very active.  That is coming into play now as I have been “deconditioned”, so I am having to slowly get reconditioned. 

I have been having some of the weird symptoms I was having before surgery, but I think that is to be expected while I continue to heal. They are unsettling to me and I am eager for them to stop. It is hard sometimes to not feel discouraged with how my body feels and the healing that stills needs to happen. I have to take my thoughts captive and remember that it will take a while for healing and not to rush it. The neurosurgeon said it would be a full year to recover. I need to have patience and hold on to hope for this next year.

Last weekend we went to Spokane to help move Genna home for the summer. I was only able to see a few people while we were there, but it felt so good to be out and see people who are so encouraging to me. I am so appreciative of the friends and family that have reached out to support me. This is a lonely season; I miss seeing my friends and family.

Thank you for your continued prayers,

Shae Sobottke

Valley of Blessings

It is hard to believe that it has been four weeks (yesterday) since surgery. It feels like it happened yesterday. 

My pain is under control for the most part, my neck still bothers me a lot and there are times where I feel like I can feel every strand of hair on my head. I have started to go off all the meds, which means I am able to start sleeping through the night. Before, I had to wake up several times each night for different meds. I am working hard now on getting my sleep routine back to normal. I am still taking naps, although not as much as before. 

The Physical Therapist, at the hospital in Colorado, told me that this next year is going to be a year of unpredictable energy. He said that my first milestone would be two weeks and then four. I have hit the fourth week and I am now able to wash with shampoo that’s not baby shampoo.  My hair is so happy now! I have a lot of hair and it didn’t like being washed with baby shampoo. I have lost a lot of hair and there has been lots of breakage. I am thinking about cutting some layers to blend it all together.

My next milestone is my first physical therapy appointment next week, which will mark five weeks from the surgery. They warned me at the hospital that there is still a ton of movement that I still cannot do right now, so not to feel discouraged when there is not much they are doing with me at the appointment. 

A year ago, I would never have imagined that I would have brain surgery. There are moments where it does not feel real. It feels like a dream or a passing thought. Then I run my fingers over my scar and feel my hair that is growing back. It is still hard to believe all that has happened in such a short amount of time, for something that has been a struggle for almost 6 years. 

It is a full year of recovery and I may not know what symptoms have/will clear up until this next year has passed. While surgery relives a lot of the symptoms, it is still not a cure. The neurosurgeon warned me that not all my symptoms may go away and some of my symptoms he said may or may not be caused by Chiari. It is hard to know for sure. Some of the side effects of the medications I’ve been taking, since the surgery, mimic Chiari symptoms. As I continue to heal and move away from all of the medications that layer will be lifted too

I am very hopeful though. I feel that surgery has already helped, even though I still feel some symptoms. I must keep reminding myself that I have a year to recover and heal. The brain fog I was having seems to be gone. I already feel more present in the moment, despite the exhaustion.  

God has been so good to me through all of this. I have seen Him moving when everything seemed not to be moving at all. He has reminded me of His love for me through those around me. All of you who have and continue to pray for me, thank you so much for all of your love and prayers. 

When my family and I first began discussing the possibility of making multiple trips to Colorado, the expenses required seemed out of reach. I had already made multiple trips to Seattle to meet with the neurosurgeon there and hit a dead end. I knew from the beginning that it would be different in Colorado, but I still didn’t know what it would like like. When we seriously discussed it and prayed about it, my mom said she felt confident that God would provide. Though so many of you, He has. Several times a donation would unexpectedly come in to meet the immediate need that we were facing. Often in the exact amount that was needed. God’s hand has so clearly guided this journey. Thank you to everyone who helped me financially. I feel so blessed and somewhat overwhelmed. I am still waiting to find out the full extend of the medical bills

Please continue to pray for me. I am still uncomfortable and in some pain. It is a hard adjustment to not be able to move and do as much stuff as I usually do. It is hard to watch life move on for everyone around me and then feel like it is moving really slow for me. Pray also that I would get some rest. I am still not sleeping through the night. My biggest request is patience for healing. The doctors said this would be a time of quiet rest and recovery, but I have not felt the rest lately. I am still waking up several time night and feel exhausted during the day.

I have been looking for the small blessings in each day. The last few days have been super sunny and warm. I have been able to sit outside on a blanket and enjoy the weather and the purple Chiari garden my mom and Isla planted for me. Watching it grow and and blossom has been a beautiful thing to look forward to watch.

May God bless you,

Shae Sobottke

I Needed The Quiet

I needed the quiet so He drew me aside,
Into the shadows where we could confine
Away from the bustle where all the long day
I hurried and worried when active and strong.

I need the quiet though at first I rebelled
But gently, so gently, my cross He upheld,
And whispered so sweetly of Spiritual things
Though weakened in body, my spirit took wings,
To heights never dreamed of when active and gay.
He loves me so greatly He drew me away.

I needed the quiet. No prison my bed,
But a beautiful valley of blessings instead - 
A place to grow richer in Jesus to hide.
I needed the quiet so He drew me aside.

~ Alice Hansche Mortenson


April 2nd Staples are out!!

Shae’s primary doctor and I both assured her that getting her staples removed wouldn’t feel too uncomfortable. I’ve had them three times, after C-sections, and I just remember feeling relief. Well, staples in your head are a different story! Shae thought that it really hurt! Her incision looked pretty angry until the next day, but is calming down now.

Day #16

Shae’s neurosurgeon did a remarkable job! After it heals, you will hardly be able to see the scar. She’s almost a little disappointed because she hopes to use her zipperhead battle scars to spark conversations and raise awareness about Chiari Malformation.

Shae Sobottke, Facebook 4/2/21

I got my staples out today!!
A very dear friend, Shaylin, sent me this song as a beautiful reminder today, and every day to come, that “these wounds are a story You’ll (God) use”
This scar on my skull/neck is a physical reminder of God’s steadiness and faithfulness throughout my whole journey with Chiari Malformation. There were moments where my future and life looked bleak. It could’ve been a time of no hope, but I held on to Christ and put all my faith in Him and He filled me with hope. 💜

“So I’m thankful for the scars
‘Cause without them I wouldn’t know your heart
And I know they’ll always tell of who you are
So forever I am thankful for the scars”

Today is Shae’s best day this week! She’s been awake all day and feels pretty good. Her physical therapist in Colorado prepared her for good day and bad days and to just keep going forward. She’s been in a phase where her pain is under control, but higher than has been. She has been sleeping up to 20 hours per day and uncomfortable when she is awake. We’ve been going on short walks. Right now her goal is to walk to the mailbox three times per day. Yesterday was her longest walk yet, she walked about four houses down our street and back. Afterwards, her legs felt like jelly and she was shaky, but she did it!

The back of her head is a little puffy and feels like a soggy peach. That is another milestone that her team told her to watch for that because it is part of the healing process.

Her nausea has gone away, so she no longer takes medication for that around the clock. The surgery site is near the area of the brain that controls nausea, so strong nausea is a common after effect of the surgery. Shae is so grateful that it has passed because throwing up is a big NO-NO! after surgery. It felt like the most important instruction was to NOT throw up. Another big step toward feeling normal!

The day before Easter, Shae’s Great-Grandma Jeanne, Great-Aunt Eileen, Great-Uncle Chris and Grand-Uncle Frank came by to pray over her. Great-Aunt Eileen brought us this Lambie Cake she made for us! It was so nice to share in a small part of Easter traditions this year! Our Easter was very quiet.

Easter Lambie Cake

Thank you all for your continued prayers! Shae still has a very long journey and we are so grateful for all of your love and support!


(Shae’s mom)

Spring Flowers for Shae

Shae continues to heal. Her pain yesterday was intense, but she is doing better today. Pray for a controlled pain level. She wakes up every couple of hours for medication, but was able to sleep through most of the night.

Shae rests a lot during the day. Spring has sprung and with that, SUN! Her physical therapist told Shae to get as much sun as she can, so the family was out planting today. Shae enjoyed the sunny skies while watching. Pretty soon she’ll have her own spot in the garden.

Stephanie said she and Isla are planting purple (chiari color) flowers to remind them of Shae’s chiari journey and for her to watch while she recuperates. The Sobottke’s really know how to care well for one another. You’ll have to check out Shae’s instagram page to see what her sister did to support her. @shaesobbotke The gesture sure melted my heart!

Looking ahead, Shae will go back to CO for her eight week checkup in May. That includes an MRI, then meetings with the physical therapist and neurosurgeon.

The four month mark will be a turning point. She will be released to be a little more active. Healing takes a full year and it was explained to her that it will take a year for her energy level to become predictable. Praise God for modern medicine and for the resemblance of normalcy to take place once again!

We’re so much closer to Shae’s Go Fund Me goal! Let’s hit this out of the park! Share Shae’s story and help us reach that goal. We’re so thankful for everyone who has given thus far. Keep checking back here on her blog for continued updates as well.

Shae definitely has a light about her. It’s definitely Jesus. May he continued to be glorified in and through her life!

We love you Shae! We will continue to cheer you on!


Wild Winds

Shae and I arrived home at noon yesterday, a day later than we planned. Our third and last leg of our flight was quite the adventure! Thank you Jesus for entrusting us with such skilled pilots who handled everything so well, a safe landing, friends who are like family, an awesome ER doc, and Shae’s continued good recovery!

Leaving Aurora with our first amazing pilot. There were strong headwinds all the way to Wyoming.
Shae using a special Chiari pillow with a cutout for her incision.
During our first flight, Shae’s ears popped for the first time in years!
With the awesome pilot who flew us from Wyoming to Idaho.

The weather during our last flight shifted and the air was turbulent. Our cautious and highly skilled pilots decided to divert the flight to The Dalles, OR due to weather concerns. Shae was throwing up (very concerning post surgery) and felt light headed. She thought it was her blood pressure dropping again, but it was her oxygen dipping. They had an oxygen tank onboard and after we gave her some she felt a little better. 

Shae says these guys are her new favorite people!
As a child, my husband’s grandma always told him that when he saw sunbeams that meant God was talking to him. As the wind picked up, those beautiful sunbeams we reassuring to me that God was holding us close to him.
Going in to land at The Dalles on the east end of the Columbia Gorge.
The Dalles, OR

After we landed, we all took Shae to the ER to get checked out. The ER doctor examined her thoroughly and all looked normal. Her incision also looked good. They gave her pain and anti nausea shots which kicked in very quickly.

Our hero pilots charmed the front desk into delivering DQ they brought us! Shae’s reaction to the food was a great indicator that she was feeling better!

Shae said it smelled so good that her doctor lost his thought when he came into her room!

The hospital kept her for observation until she felt better and then released her. The pilots were amazing and waited until our friends arrived from Vancouver. We went to a hotel with instructions to let Shae sleep and watch her closely.

Praise the Lord for dear friends who are family!
Almost home!

After we arrived home yesterday, Shae was able to shower by herself with a shower chair and handheld shower head. Isla sat guard outside the door in case Shae needed any help. Shae washed her hair with baby shampoo, she will do that for the first month.

She practiced doing many of the things she learned how to do at the hospital, without moving her head up or down, such as brushing her teeth and walking up the stairs.

Glory to God for all of the healing that has already happened! Shae is continually amazed at how different she feels already. So many of her symptoms are already healed! I’ll let Shae detail that for you all when she feels a little better.

Today (Tuesday) is one week from the surgery. She has slept most of the day and her pain was high this afternoon. Please pray for her comfort and continued healing! We are so grateful for all of the prayers and support of our family and friends. It was a little intense during our last flight, but we knew it was going to be okay.


(Shae’s Mom)


Yup, you read that right, Shae was discharged! We’re so thankful that her healing was “on schedule” and they let her leave the hospital. She didn’t have any BP crashes leading up to discharge the night before, which may have left her in one more day. The incision pain keeps her up at night but her spirits remain high.

Shae connected with some of her nurses before leaving the hospital and met some from east Africa. Her night nurse is from Uganda and invited Shae to her Ugandan Church there in Colorado. They traded information to keep in touch! Shae was supposed to go to Uganda last year but her trip as canceled because of covid. It’s amazing how God uses even our pain to connect us with people from around the world!

Her neurosurgeon came to check before she left.

When Shae got back to the hospital she was able to make it down to the hotel restaurant for some food. She’s still struggling with some nausea so prayers there.

She’s getting meds every two hours through the night to handle the pain, so they set alarms and are keeping track on a med app. It’s hard to get back into a restful night sleep but it’s the only way to manage her pain. The doc said he’s surprised they were able to do that through the night. Yesterday he said he was amazed by her recovery so far! Praise the Lord for his favor! Shae is able to walk by herself and can dress alone for the most part. She can’t move her head up or down, so Isla helps her with her socks and shoes.

We’re thankful that Riley made it back to Alaska safely. She’ll be in quarantine for the next two weeks, per army policy. This will be tough, so pray for her heart to rest easy and that the time will go by quickly for her mentally. Stephanie noted how grateful she was that they (the family) were able to gather and be there for Shae during this time.

Shae travels via Angel Flight tomorrow and it’s a long day! They will be taking 3 planes in total. Pray Shae would find comfort on each plane and that the nausea would subside until they get home. That she’d have the endurance to get home (or just altogether!). For safety for the plane and a general focus of the pilots as they carry her.

Shae and Stephanie have been overwhelmed by your sacrifice to give to the gofundme fundraiser. Thank you for partnering together to love on Shae and remove some of the burden. Your support, prayers and care mean so much and they are very grateful. Feel free to spread the word so they can reach their goal. The money will be used to cover the cost of the surgery, and future doctor visits back to Colorado.

Psalm 46: 1-3 has been the meditation of Shae’s heart in the last couple of days. “God is our refuge and strength; an every present help in trouble. Therefore we will not fear, though the earth give way and the mountains fall into the heart of the sea, though it’s waters roar and foam and the mountains quake with their surging.”

Praise be to God!

We love you Shae! We’re still praying and rooting for you. You are deeply loved.

We’re with you Shae!

You guys, thank you so much for rallying around Shae. Your prayers are felt! I’m happy to report that today Shae walked around the entire floor and ate pizza for lunch! This is huge news! It’s a good sign her healing is taking place.

Shae has been on the ICU floor since she left the recovery room. Tonight she’ll transfer to the neuro floor. You can be praying for her blood pressure. It’s still a little low and because of that, they are avoiding some medications that would help buffer her bouts of nausea. Be praying her blood pressure bounces back to where it’s supposed to be. Pray she’ll meet the requirements physically for her discharge tomorrow.

After she’s discharged the Sobottke’s will stay in the hotel another two days and then fly out Sunday. Shae and Stephanie will fly Angel Flight West home. Shae’s sister, Riley flies home to Alaska tomorrow (Friday).

We’re thankful for cheese pizza, Shae’s strength in staying focused on her healing, for the much anticipated quieter neurological floor and the possibility of discharging tomorrow! And for people like you who have committed to laying Shae before the Lord. He alone is to be praised!

I want to encourage you to consider giving to help relieve the financial burden this surgery carries. Will you help us reach Shae’s goal? You can donate on her gofundme page. And please feel free to share on your social media pages.

Thanks everyone! We’re still here, Shae, rooting for you! And guess what, so is Jesus.